Text Titus 3:3 Time 03/11/10 Place Childs Hill Baptist Church
We
have begun to look at Titus 3 where Paul begins by reminding Titus to
Remind
the people to be subject to rulers and authorities, to be obedient,
to be ready to do whatever is good, to
slander no one, to be peaceable and considerate, and to show true
humility toward all men.
On of his arguments for such action is that these people have been
converted and so should be willing and able to
be subject to rulers and authorities, to be obedient, to be ready to
do whatever is good, to slander no one, to be peaceable and
considerate, and to show true humility toward all men.
That
leads him to reflect firstly on what they all were at
one time before
they were converted. He uses some six adjectives or adjectival
phrases to describe how it used to be and I thought it would be good
if this evening we meditated on each one and meditated on how it is
with those who are still unconverted and how it once was with us who
have had the
kindness and love of God our Saviour appear... so
that we are saved
- not because of righteous things we had done, but because of his
mercy having
known the
washing of rebirth and renewal by the Holy Spirit an
having been
justified by God's
grace, so
becoming heirs
with
the
hope of eternal life.
Perhaps
we can think of it chiefly as the way we were.
1.
Once we were foolish as many still are
Paul
begins
At one time we too were foolish. The
word means something like unintelligent, thoughtless, mindless,
unthinking. Paul has already spoken (in 1:15) about how their
minds and consciences are corrupted. To
be an unbeliever is to be like a silly sheep. The word is similar to
the one used in Luke 24:50 when Jesus says to the disciples How
foolish you are, and how slow of heart to believe all that the
prophets have spoken!
As you know, when
the Bible talks about being foolish it has in mind not just stupidity
but more moral corruption. It is one of the themes of the Book of
Proverbs. In the first nine chapters we read appeals like these.
1:22
How
long will you simple ones love your simple ways? How long will
mockers delight in mockery and fools hate knowledge?
8:5
You
who are simple, gain prudence; you who are foolish, gain
understanding.
9:6
Leave
your simple ways and you will live; walk in the way of understanding.
In the Proverbs
proper we have a portrait of the fool in his many guises.
In Romans 1 Paul
speaks of the foolish hearts if unbelievers being darkened and that
is the sort of thing that is in mind here.
There is a famous
debate between the late Greg Bahnsen and an atheist Dr Gordon Stein.
Dr Bahnsen who was a philosopher as well as a theologian runs rings
around Stein who was not really on his specialist subject. At one
point they discuss logic and Stein accepts that there are laws of
logic that are universal. He also accepts that they are immaterial.
They then come to discuss God and Stein asks Bahnsen if he thinks God
is immaterial, which he does, of course. He then asks if he has an
example of anything else immaterial. Of course, Bahnsen mentions the
laws of logic! The basic argument is that the atheist cannot really
account for morality while he refuses to believe in God. Not all
unbelievers would claim to be atheists but similar logical flaws can
be found in their thinking and morality.
There is something
unthinking and foolish about the unbeliever. It surfaces at many
points. They know they will die but will not prepare for death. They
know there is God but make no real effort to seek after him. They
live for self and for their own pleasure. What foolishness there is
everywhere. And that's how we were and how we still would be if it
were not for his kindness in saving us.
2. Once we were
disobedient as many still are
The
word disobedient
has
already come up in 1:16 where Paul describes unbelievers as those who
claim
to know God, but by their actions ... deny him. They are detestable,
disobedient and unfit for doing anything good. More
literally the word is again negative and means that they are not
persuadable, not biddable. To be an unbeliever is to be like a
stubborn mule that won't do what its master says. It starts when we
are young and we refuse to obey our parents, it often betrays itself
in a contempt for other authorities and ultimately it is a refusal to
obey God. The unbeliever will not do nor can he do what God wants him
to do.
Isn't this what
the whole debate on homosexuality is all about? God says, no you can't
and men want to disobey God – sometimes simply to disobey – and
those who don't want to disobey in this way want to disobey in
others.
There is something
unwilling and disobedient about the unbeliever. It surfaces at many
points. They know in general what God wants from them but on some
things they refuse to do as he commands. They often know that
obedience to God – not murdering, not committing adultery, not
lying - is the best way forward and yet they refuse to do it
nevertheless. They live regardless of God and his will. What
disobedience there is everywhere. And that's how we were and how we
still would be if it were not for his kindness in saving us.
3. Once we were
deceived as many still are
By
nature we are also deceived.
The
word used here is not a negative one but is the same word from which
we get our word “planet”. Planets were thought of in ancient
times as wandering stars. So here Paul is saying that unbelievers are
wanderers, those who have gone astray, who are out of the right way,
in error. Part of being an unbeliever is to be in error about the
truth. It is to be like a lost sheep that has gone astray from God.
I had a cup of
coffee today and the person serving me was smiling. I've noticed
before that she is always smiling. I said why are you always smiling,
because you are a Christian? No, she's Hindu. Because she would cry
otherwise? No. Very happy and yet not converted. It happens. It is a delusion.
The Devil deceives
sinners and sin deceives them. They are deceived by the lies of men
and in the end deceive themselves with their lies and errors.
There is something
self-deceiving and wayward about the unbeliever. It surfaces at many
points. They do not realise that they are in gross error. They wander
through life, ambling along all the while, drifting further from the
truth like a ship or a wave on the sea. They live a life of error.
What error there is everywhere. And that's how we were and how we
still would be if it were not for his kindness in saving us.
4. Once we were
enslaved by all kinds of passions and pleasures
Paul
goes on and
enslaved by all kinds of passions and pleasures. To
be an unbeliever is to be a slave. It is state of being trapped by
all
kinds of passions and pleasures
or longings and desires. God has given us certain appetites – for
food and drink and friendship and sex and excitement and other such
things. These appetites were never mean to rule over us but that is
what happens to the unbeliever. He lives for his pleasures. He is by
nature a hedonist, one who lives for pleasure. Self -indulgence is a
key idea with him. Sloths sleep as much as 23 hour sin 24.
Unbelievers can be similarly indulgent.
People can be surprisingly open about this – that they live for
pleasure. I met someone in the summer who was about to go to work in
Ghana in some help project, She was quite clear, however, that
although it would hopefully help the Ghanaians, it was chiefly about
her. The advertisers have cottoned on and are always saying “Go on,
indulge yourself” “Enjoy life's pleasures”, etc. The richest
woman in France is Liliane Bettencourt. She is
the major shareholder in L'Oréal, the world's biggest cosmetic
manufacturer. Some years ago L'Oréal's slogan was "Because I'm
worth it". They softened it to "Because you're worth it"
after concerns in France that the original appeared too
money-oriented. It typifies the general attitude of the believer.
There is something
self-seeking and self-indulgent about the unbeliever. It surfaces at
many points. They live for pleasure. They often think only of
indulging this appetite or that. They live, as far as they can. a
life of ease and of luxury. It comes out in different ways but what
self-indulgence there is everywhere. And that's how we were and how
we still would be if it were not for his kindness in saving us.
5. Once we lived
in malice and envy, as many still do
Paul
also says We
lived in malice and envy. Again
it doesn't always come out in the same way but there is an evil and
an ill will that is characteristic of every one who is outside of
Christ. There is a nastiness about the unbeliever that sometimes
surprises us. Sometimes they can harbour evil schemes and strong envy
for years and years. Like ferocious wild animals they can be quite
unkind and malicious.
It starts off in childhood. Children can be very cruel to one
another. In America they have found that suicide is the
third leading cause of death among young people, resulting in about
4400 deaths per year. For every suicide among young people, there are
at least 100 suicide attempts. Over 14% of high school students have
considered suicide, and almost 7 % have attempted it. Victims of
bullying between 2 and 9 times more likely to consider suicide
than non-victims, according to studies by Yale University. A study in
Britain found that at least half of suicides among young people are
related to bullying. Girls 10-14 are at highest risk, according to
studies. As many as 30
% of American students are either bullies or victims and 160,000 kids
stay home from school every day because of bullying.
There is something
malicious and ill-willed about the unbeliever. It surfaces at many
points. Wives kill husbands and husbands wives. Neighbours fight and
refuse to speak. How nasty people can be. What unpleasantness there
is everywhere. And that's how we were and how we still would be if it
were not for his kindness in saving us.
6. Once we hated
and were hated by others, as many still are
The
final phrase
being hated and hating one another gives
perhaps the wrong impression in that two different words are used.
However, the first word does mean being hateful and the second to
hate. Again it is not difficult to think of examples of this.
They
say elephants never forget but no animal would ever bear a grudge
like a man.
This is from the Liverpool Echo
A
NIGHTMARE neighbour who made life in a Liverpool tower block a misery
was finally evicted.
Billy
Niven, dubbed "Mr Nasty", is in prison for terrorising
others living close to his Old Swan home and breaching an ASBO he was
handed last year.
And
today, at Liverpool County Court, he was told he will not be allowed
to return home on his release in mid-November and is banned from even
entering the block for a year.
In
August Judge Graham Platts suspended an application for Liverpool
Mutual Homes to take possession of the Baden House flat, in Baden
Road, giving Niven one last chance after he promised to change his
ways.
But
the judge conceded his earlier optimism was "misplaced"
after the court heard it took just two weeks for the 48-year-old to
return to his old ways.
In
just one day he abused a housing association employee, threatened
fellow residents and intimidated workmen, telling them "I’m
the boss of this site".
Niven
was jailed for four months in September for two breaches of his ASBO.
During that hearing the court heard he had subjected residents to
five years of misery, arming himself with weapons, leaving dog dirt
and threatening letters in the lifts and issuing violent threats.
Yesterday,
his solicitor Michael Krebs told the court prison had had "a
profound effect on him" and in a letter said he wanted to
apologise, promising to change his ways.
But
Judge Platts said: "I don’t think I have heard any genuine
signs of apology or remorse from him and I suspect the letter is
written in an attempt to retain his home rather than any genuine
admission of remorse on his behalf."
LMH
chief executive Steve Coffey said today : "We are delighted the
court took these steps to evict and exclude him from the area because
he has been ruining tenants’ lives for a long time with his anti
social behaviour.
"The
courage our tenants have shown in taking a stand against him is
commendable and we hope others see this case and have the confidence
to report anti-social behaviour to us so we can act."
There
is something hateful and hating about the unbeliever. It surfaces at
many points. They can be so nasty, so vindictive. It comes out in
different ways but what hatred there is everywhere in the rat race.
And that's how we were and how we still would be if it were not for
his kindness in saving us.
Give
thanks for deliverance and pray for others to be saved despite
themselves.